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hmmm.. suddenly just want to talk abt a topic.. abt love and committment....hehe.. my favourite tpoic .. hehe.. love... dun worry ppl .. there is nothing wrong with mi... i'm fine ... hehe.. just that recently , been hearing and seeing some stuffs from frenzs... suddenly this thought just came across mi.. okie la .. not really suddenly la... but as u all knoe... i'm an emotional gal.. so just like to think abt this stuff... nothing to do so find things to do lor (mei shi zhao shi zhuo) ... hahaha ...so guess u all have to bare with mi ...hehe ..
anyway... i just thought that...sometimes a couple will not want to promise the other parnter anything .. cos they dunno wat will happen in the future .. so they dun want to make empty promises... it is prefectly fine and understandable...when in a relationship.. or mostly, u can hear ppl saying ... "we will never noe wat will happen in the future ... maybe we might not even be together in the future.. who knows that something might have happen in the future.. but wat i know is for now.. my heart is with u ... n i love ya ....so why go think abt the future..." this sort of stuffs...or at least some of them.... i agree totally that the future is unpredictable and many things could happen.. there is no certain answer for the "together forever" for any couple......... but i just wonder why....
For mi, i think that its not the matter of whether the future is unpredictable anot.. it is confirm unpredictable ... that is the fact.. but the point is... no matter wat happen to any couple ( let say man A and lady B), its abt how much they want to be with each other.. its abt how hard they are willing to try to stay together... let say if in future ... B changes... she might not like the way A behave .. she might prefer another type of guy ( that is the unpredicted future that no one can answer.. cos they wun know wat will happen to them in future).. but it will really depend on how much she love A and how much she will want to be together with A... if the love is strong ... n the willingness to be with each other is strong ... no matter wat .. they will be together... n thats is wat individual can control....
I got a frenz... he n his gf have been having problem since a yr ago maybe .. n the fact is that .. everyone told him to give up.. cos the gal is not worth it .... but he never... though a lot of time , he is convinced to let go .. cos he have been hurt once n again.. but in the end.. he will try n try n try again.. to win her heart back.. so that they can be together... i admire him... the strong will that he have ... this is wat i meant by though the future is unpredictable .. as long as the will that u want to be together with each other , the love for each other is strong.. u will still be together...though they are not working out even for now... n might be having a separate path... i dun think its his fault actually .. or is that " thats is the unpredicted future .. see .. in the end , they are still not together" but , i think its that the gal's will to be with him is not strong at all..the love that she have for him is not strong at all.... in fact, i dun even think that the gal really want to be with him forever .. or are not really ready to be with him forever... but to mi , i think ... the guy have really tried .. tired all his best to save the relationship as he really want to be with that gal.. but is just that the gal didnt have the same thought too ..so in the end, the guy can onli feel hopeless .. n disappointment once n again n again..
if the two of u are sure that each other are the one for each other...then why do ppl still say that " u will never noe wat will happen in the future " is it because they are unwilling to give the committment ??? sometime i wonder? is it that they are afraid that things might change in the future.. so its better not to make any empty promise or it will hurt ppl even more??? n how much are u sure that u are the one for him or he is the one for u ??? but if u know n are sure that she is the one for u ... then why are u still saying that " u will never noe wat will happen in the future?"
it may sound a bit stupid .. or a bit fairy tale like thingy cos the reality is never like that .. as ppl do change ... n feeling changes too.. u might like a person now.. but u never noe , few years from now.. u might not like that person anymore.. but for mi ... maybe i'm still living in my own little world.. where i think as long as you really want to be with him.. no matter wat happen .. u will try to over come it .... of course, is always easy to say onli ....be that again.. nothing is impossible as long as u tried. .. any one have any comment?
actually i shouldnt be talking abt this ...........hmm.. but its just a thought that i have u know ...weird mi.. always thinking of the wrong kind of stuff at wrong time ... hai... hehehe ... i should really start to think of the positive side man ... if not , later i scare my bf away then i know .. hahaha .. zhi zhao ma fan.... hmm.. maybe i should just stop thinking too much ...hehe.. not good for my own mind too .. hahahah ...
posted by Trish daydreaming at 5/11/2005 01:35:00 AM
